Many Edenton residents are familiar with the George & Alex Memorial Foundation through its annual “Live Your Dash” 5K and Fun Run or the Spring Zing fundraiser. Proceeds from those events support the George & Alex Memorial Scholarship, awarded each year to a graduating John A. Holmes High School senior for the past 14 years. What many people may not know, however, is who George and Alex were and the lasting impact they had on the Edenton community.
Alex Boehling and George Parrish were the best of friends, along with George’s twin brother, Daniel, and Joseph Westbrook. They excelled academically, athletically and as student leaders. Alex graduated as valedictorian of the John A. Holmes High School Class of 2006, while George ranked among the top 10 percent of his class.
“We all have that one friend—or maybe two—we always want to be around because there’s never a dull moment,” said Joseph Westbrook. “You know you’re going to have fun, and when the day is over, you can’t wait to see what the next adventure will bring. That was Alex. He was incredibly smart, fiercely competitive and had a drive unlike anyone I’ve ever known. Whatever he set his mind to, he was determined to succeed, and more often than not, he did.”
Beyond academics, the boys played soccer and tennis, loved being outdoors and were known for hosting bonfires that attracted friends from throughout the area.
“We definitely got into a lot of mischief, but I feel like we balanced it out well and were still seen as good kids and positive members of the community,” said Daniel Parrish. “George and I babysat, worked on the farm, mowed lawns and did odd jobs. Since we had a truck, people would call us for all kinds of work, especially after Hurricane Isabel.”
Life on the water was another shared passion.
“Growing up in Edenton, almost everyone can relate to spending time on a boat, whether it was fishing, cruising or enjoying water sports,” Westbrook said. “For us, it was wakeboarding. Looking back, I realize how lucky we were that our parents trusted us enough to take the boat out as teenagers. Those summer memories are something I wouldn’t trade for anything.”
George passed away in 2007, followed by Alex in 2011. Determined to honor their lives, family members and close friends, led by the Boehling family, established the George & Alex Memorial Foundation and Scholarship Fund.
The foundation's first fundraiser was a community 5K race, with proceeds benefiting a scholarship for a John A. Holmes graduating senior.
“The mission of the George & Alex Memorial Foundation is to fund scholarships for local students,” said Mary Boehling, Alex’s mother. “The scholarship is awarded to a student who reflects the character, values and accomplishments of George and Alex.”
Today, the foundation is guided by approximately 16 board members, including family members, lifelong friends, healthcare representatives and community leaders. Several have served for more than a decade.
The scholarship has grown significantly over the years. What began as a $2,500 award has evolved into a $20,000 scholarship distributed over four years. To date, the foundation has awarded more than $115,000 in scholarships. Recipients are selected using five criteria: academic achievement, community service, extracurricular involvement, athletics and a personal interview.
“We were honored to present Hailey Roberson as this year’s recipient,” said Anne Parrish. “She plans to attend the University of Mount Olive to study nursing.”
Funding for the scholarship comes primarily from two annual events: the George & Alex Memorial 5K Race and Fun Run and the Spring Zing fundraiser, now incorporated into the Rockfish Festival.
The race, held annually on the third Saturday in September, will take place Sept. 19, 2026. Approximately 300 runners and walkers participated last year, making it one of the largest races in the area. Designed as a family-friendly event, it also features a children's Fun Run and concludes at the Herringbone, where volunteers prepare lunch on the famous “Big Red” grill.
Run the East manages registration, race logistics and timing, while local businesses, volunteers and community partners provide strong support. Many runners and volunteers return year after year, making the event a true community tradition.
The foundation’s second fundraiser, formerly known as Spring Zing, is now part of the annual Rockfish Festival and features a silent auction and sausage plate sales to benefit the scholarship fund.
When reflecting on their lifelong friends, both Joseph Westbrook and Daniel Parrish spoke less about accomplishments and more about the friendships that shaped their lives.
“I have two kids of my own now,” Westbrook said. “More than anything, I hope each of them finds an Alex Boehling in their lives—a friend who makes them laugh, encourages them, inspires them to be better and helps create memories they’ll carry forever.”
Daniel shared a similar sentiment.
“I’m so proud that we’re able to keep their names alive while giving back to aspiring students,” he said. “It’s incredibly meaningful to see the time, money and effort so many people have devoted to honoring George and Alex through this foundation.”